YOU’RE NOT MEETING MEN THAT RESPECT YOU.

And that’s weird..because in your professional world everyone respects you.

You’ve built a successful business.

You’re attractive, creative, self-aware….

You’ve worked on your relational patterns and know

that what would absolutely complete your life

is a strong, loving man to walk the path with.

So WTF? Why can’t you find him?

It’s not because there aren’t enough men out there.

It’s definitely not that you need to spend more time on dating apps…

OR just blocking it all out and focusing on work.

If you’ve been spinning in this cycle for quite some time and you can’t seem to get out, something d e e p e r is going on

You’ve already delved into your childhood…the often dysfunctional relationship between your parents that you saw, but you get that and you understand how that shows up for you.

(You’ve talked about it extensively in therapy)

But there are aspects to existence that most therapists don’t touch.

And the primary area that may be getting in your way is

Your past life experiences with men.

It’s not unheard of for a woman (who has been a woman in many lifetimes)

To have made a decision to protect herself from men

At all costs

That marriage is simply not worth it

That they will not repeat the trauma.

Your previous self has been trying to protect you

But of course, they are misguided

The way to deal with previous bad marriages and relational trauma with men

is NOT to unconsciously decide that you will not interact with them in any meaningful way

It’s to heal the root of the trauma and any continued stories or attachments to those past life experiences,

integrate them & move into truly health love.

In a client with this sort of problem, I would expect there to be 3-6 aspects of the

beliefs, trauma, story, attachment, lack of integration from experiences

(both in past lives & in this one)

that would need to be uncovered + healed before her outer reality

would start showing up differently.

And we would do that, piece by piece,

Until each limiting component of the pattern

had dissolved, or the awareness of it was so

strong & clear

that she would no longer fall into the trap

when it arrived.

And when we do this, new men could come into the picture LIKE MAGIC.

It feels like magic, though it’s very logical:

When you are no longer holding an energetic/spiritual template

for no men to get close to you

(Which is why they’ve been showing up disrespectful)

BOOM! Suddenly good men can show up in your field

Next, there would likely be 2 – 5 shifts to make in the

*frequency* behind your actions & how you show up

in early relationship.

Shifts that would allow you to transcend the separation

between you and a life partner completely

And you would find that if a partner is still what you

truly want, then it would not be long at all

until you connect with them

& start building your beautiful life together.

This is what’s possible when you admit that

what you’re doing and the things that you’ve tried so far

aren’t working.

That relationships and men are complicated for you

& there is a deep and convicted root cause of that

That started well before your current lifetime.

This is a large part of the work I do with my 1:1 clients to help them

transcend their deepest, most existential fear-based patterns

and live the high frequency life of their dreams.

When you untangle an issue like this you will not only

Have the fulfilling successful career & business,

You will have a partnership that is a true match to your greatness.

One where you are the oracle, the spiritual-energetic leader

of where the relationship goes

And the masculine has HIS beautiful vision as well,

You both serving one another in the highest capacity

in home, love, family, fulfillment & passionate connection.

If you are ready to stop circling the pattern of attracting disrespectful men

& keeping yourself single to protect yourself unhealed from past life relational trauma,

Send me a message to inquire about my six month 1:1 program “AHH, FINALLY.”

Where we use my signature method to step by step untangle, heal and transform

Every component of this unnecessary (but very understandable)

root pattern that’s been holding you in place unconsciously.

DM me through messenger or IG or email to discuss your particulars & we’ll set up a call to see if we’re a good fit.